I Want a Parade
Did you ever notice that people are quick to comment when you are making a mistake or doing something bad but seldom praise you for the good you do? If I can not commit an error without having it pointed out, then I want recognition for every good thing I do. I know that is totally unrealistic to expect and terribly selfish, but it doesn’t stop me from wanting it.
I quit smoking.
On January 17th of this year I smoked my last cigarette. It’s been over six weeks and I have yet to come home to a house full of balloons, cake, and congratulatory banners. What is up with that? People are spending millions of dollars a year on smoking cessation programs, community anti-smoking education, and advertising that is constantly shoved on smokers telling them that they are idiots if they continue down such a devastating path toward death. Quitting a bad habit like that is not easy. I struggled for years to quit and felt so proud of myself as I passed the dreaded three-week mark that in the past has led to a relapse. Friends and family harassed me for years about my “filthy habit”. Even strangers would comment by beginning an exaggerated cough as soon as they spotted a cigarette in my hand. Even if it was not yet lit.
I consider myself a non-smoker now. I know it hasn’t been that long, but I am not turning back. It is hard to carry out a task that difficult and receive no accolades. I feel like the only reason people paid attention to my habit, and to me, was to make me do what they wanted. As soon as I stopped smoking, they won and no longer needed to attend to me to press their views upon my apparently susceptible mind. Don’t get me wrong; I am very happy to no longer depend upon cigarettes that are proven to shorten not only people’s lives but the quality of it.
I suppose no one is my greater critic than myself. I’ll just have to encourage myself as a cheerleader as well. Have you done something you think merits a parade? Maybe we can can have one together.
I’d throw you a parade if I could! I think that is a fabulous accomplishment!
Congratulations! What a great decision 🙂
Yeeha! Congrats on the huge life change. That is major!